tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4380590304514858282023-11-16T10:50:58.795-08:00Finding TreasuresUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-438059030451485828.post-30715591910599151712015-09-06T22:16:00.000-07:002015-09-06T23:34:27.160-07:00May 22, 2013<div style="text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><i>The</i> spot.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The spot in which your world must have stood still. The spot in which the pendulum swung between whether you should run with him still tightly clung to your chest, or to run with him tightly clung to your heart. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I can't begin to imagine what was going through your mind.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I cannot allow myself to imagine what your heart must have felt.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">How it still feels.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">As I stood at that spot today. <i>The</i> spot. I wept.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Not for myself. Not for our son.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">My tears fell for you.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Because of circumstances only you know of, and I can only speculate, you lay our precious boy at the gate.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">And as you wished the world for him, you walked away in faith.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">May you know that the One who holds the world in His hand has heard your wish.</span></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-438059030451485828.post-25601061513167770462013-05-20T01:22:00.000-07:002013-05-20T01:22:52.690-07:00Letter to an Unknown Chinese Mother<div align="center">
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I write to you today to say thank you for the most amazing gift you could have given me.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">It all happened so quickly today. We walked into the room, and before we knew what was happening, he was already in our arms. We didn't even have time to get the camera out until after our introduction. I wonder if his birth was like that too? Did he arrive quickly - too quick to even have the camera ready?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">I can imagine not a day goes by that you don't think of him. How could you not. Those gorgeous dark eyes, so full of gentleness, are unforgetable. Oh, how he loves to talk with them. They smile long before his mouth.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">I can imagine you wonder if you would recognize his precious little face if you saw him today. Believe me, you would. It would be hard to forget. I wondered the same thing today. Would I know he was my son when I walked into the room? Would his face be familiar? Would I know it was him?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">I did. It was those eyes. I knew right away.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">And you would, too.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">I can imagine you wonder what he is like, what his personality is like, how tall he is...</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">He likes to laugh. He is gentle. He is the size he should be, although smaller than my other two at this age. However, he is solid. You should see the size of his hands and feet! And he is a smart little one. You should see how he mimicks everything I am doing.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">I can imagine you wonder how his health is. Has he thrived? Was he taken care of?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">I know it was just as hard for his nannies to say goodbye to him as it was for him to leave his nannies. They have done well and they have cared for him more than just physically. He is a chubby little guy which means he has been getting the nutrients he needs. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">He drinks from a bottle on his own. He feeds himself, but also lets mommy and daddy feed him too. He is a slow eater though! We are just so happy that he is able to get food in. No wonder he has been able to keep his weight up!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">His little lip has been repaired. However, his palate won't be closed until we return to Canada. Don't worry, though, I have already met with the team at the Cleft Lip/Palate Clinic at the Alberta Children's Hospital. They are waiting for him and will provide the best care possible for him! He will get everything he needs.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">I can imagine you wonder what he is like when he sleeps. Does he look like a little angel? He does. As I write, he is sound asleep on my bed. He fell asleep in his Daddy's arms during lunch. He fights to breath through his nose. His sleep is restless because of it. Please don't worry. He is getting the air he needs and his doctors in Canada will address this when he is home. I am watching over him. More importantly, so is the Lord, just as He has done for the last 21 months.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">What I can't imagine is how much your heart must ache. My <em>filled</em> heart comes at the expense of your pain. For that I am deeply, deeply sorry.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">I wish he could have known you and known how much you love him. I promise to tell him of your love. I wish he could have known your touch. I promise to hold him in my arms each and every day. I wish he could have known how much you cared for him. I promise to meet his daily needs and do all I can for him.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">I wish he could have known your comfort while dealing with his medical needs. I promise to comfort him and care for him throughout his medical journey. I'll also hold him close through every cold and flu and fever. I promise to be there when he wakes up after surgery and tell him it will be okay. I promise to give him extra cuddles when he just isn't feeling well.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">I wish he could have looked into your eyes as you tucked him in at night. I promise to rock him and snuggle him each night before bed. As I kiss his little head, I promise to kiss him a second time, for you.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">I wish I could have known you, to thank you in person. I wish I knew your name, knew your personality, what you love and don't like, your favorite color and flower and book. I wish I knew all these things so that I had answers to the questions our dear son will have. I promise to answer him the best that I can.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana;">And when I don't have the answer, I promise to pray over him so that the One who gives a peace that surpasses all understanding will comfort his tender little heart.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">I promise to tell him of the One who knit him together in your womb. The one who has now placed our precious baby into my arms. The only One who can comfort us all. The One who gave His own life for you, and me, and our dear son.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">May you know he is now loved by two mothers. He also has a Daddy that adores him. He has a big brother and big sister that can't stop saying how much they love him and showing him new things. He is enjoying them too, smiling and talking to them. He will be surrounded by the love of grandparents, aunties and uncles, and cousins. May he always feel our love, and yours.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">To an Unkown Chinese Mother, I thank you.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">And I honor you today.</span></div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-438059030451485828.post-69851518689170721572013-05-19T06:43:00.002-07:002013-05-19T06:43:29.241-07:00One More Sleep<div align="center">
<span style="font-family: Verdana;">Long before I became a Mama, there was a little boy the Lord brought me to that taught me many lessons about life. I travelled half way around the world to work in a Children's Home in Northern Thailand and to care for this little one. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">He was four months old. </span><span style="font-family: Verdana;">He had been left in a hospital, his mother unable to care for him.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">For whatever reason, the Lord chose me to care for him day in and day out. He holds a special place in my heart and I love him dearly.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">His name is Danny.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">Not long after the Lord brought me another little one. This time, a six week old. We named him Matthew. Oh, how I treasured the nights that I was up at 3am feeding and rocking this little treasure back to sleep. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">Through Danny and Matthew my mother's heart was born and because of them a babies home began. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">We knew there would be more. Too many babies were being left behind for so many different reasons. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">We would name the next one Caleb. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">I even had a bear made with the name "Caleb" stitched on his shirt, waiting for our Caleb's arrival. But he never came.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">Oh, many, MANY more babies came to live in the home. But none of them were "Caleb." It just wasn't meant to be.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">Until now. I have been reflecting on this all week. God laid that name for my treasure on my heart years ago. He would wait 13 years before He would place my Caleb in my arms.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">He knew Caleb would have the most beautiful brown eyes and brown hair. He knew my Caleb would be from Asia. I just didn't know he would be from China rather than Thailand. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">The best part, He knew Caleb would be more than a child I cared for. He knew Caleb would be my son.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">I'm not sure where that "Caleb" bear is now. It doesn't matter. Because starting tomorrow, my dear boy, I will care for your every need, I will protect you, and I will love you.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">And I will get you a <em>new</em> bear!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">We had a wonderful day exploring Hangzhou today. Although this is not the city that Caleb is from, it is the capital city of his province and where we will be meeting and adopting our son. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">Most of the day was spent exploring West Lake. It was beautiful. Everything happened at a slow pace, not because there were too many people to maneuver around, but because everyone wanted to have their pictures taken with the kids. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">So imagine when we had them dress up in traditional outfits. I'm sure we could have paid for our entire adoption had we started charging for every picture taken. Instead, <em>we</em> had to pay for the pictures. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">The kids are doing great. Caleb is never far from their minds. This morning at breakfast Hudson asked, "Can we go see Caleb today?"</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">They are so excited. So are we. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">It is 9:30pm. Everything is ready for tomorrow. The kids are asleep.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">I cannot describe what I am feeling right now.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">We have now said goodbye to our beloved Cambodia. Being there the last couple of weeks almost felt like we had never left. And then it was time to say goodbye again. She will be dearly missed.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">Our flight to Guangzhou was uneventful, except for the two littles wanting to sit with no one but their daddy. Um, okay! I'll take the seat in front by myself.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">The next flight to Hangzhou, however, was quite the scene. Just after the plane loaded we were informed of a delay. When we saw the carts pulled out and dinner being served before we had even taxied to the runway, we knew it was going to be a long night.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">In swept the worst thunder and lightning storm I had ever seen. I was sure our plane was going to be taken up into the air by the wind alone!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">We sat there for over two hours. This resulted in the whole plane up and walking around. And then the fun.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">A full on, Chinese yelling match between several passengers and the flight attendants. It wasn't long before Mr. Powerful Breath beside me joined in on the fun. This screaming fest lasted for a good 20 minutes and included the passengers in the row in front of us, our own row, and that behind.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">The louder the screaming, the louder everyone else's talking got.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">After several "serenity nows" Darren and I stiffled our giggles as we hung our heads down low, mostly to protect ourselves from all of the horking happening around us.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">Soon the plane was on its way to the runway, passengers still mingling about and heading into the washroom. Everyone managed to make it to their seats in time for us to take off. The storm made for some turbulance. This helped to rock two of my babies to sleep. Darren and Mattea.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">Hudson chose to talk my ear off.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">We arrived at our hotel after 10 and endured the excitement of a new room for another hour or so. Then off to sleep we went.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana;">We are here Caleb. One day to go!</span></div>
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Not that we haven't been on an adventure. Trust me we have. We've seen our "family" in Cambodia, drove on tuk-tuks, rode on elephants, held tarantulas, had fish massages, lost a guest, and been stuck on the Mekong River after sunset.</div>
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Oh, and I can't forget... the family being offered heroin at the riverfront. Yes, bag of herion held up to my face in front of my children. A Cambodian first.</div>
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We've travelled the land of our hearts. We've visited with dear friends. We've enjoyed really hot weather. And now it is the eve of our departure to be united with our son.</div>
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Over the last two weeks Caleb has never been far from our minds. He's been our distraction. </div>
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It has been glorious to see the kids at separate times, on their own bring up Caleb, letting us know that they, too, are thinking about their little brother. </div>
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During our visit to Angkor Wat Hudson informed us, "I sure wish Caleb were here with us." Already he wants his little brother to experience life with his family.</div>
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During lunch Mattea looked up and said, "I wonder what Caleb is doing now."</div>
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Yesterday Hudson produced a series of pictures depicting, "special things that tell people about Jesus. I'm making these for Caleb because he might not know Jesus yet."</div>
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Today Mattea told me, "I hope Caleb is really happy about us."</div>
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Every night my babies pray for their little brother. For his protection. For a good day. "That Caleb will be just like us." We think that is Hudson's way of saying that he will fit in with our family. </div>
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Even when we are out buying souvenirs the kids make sure we get something for Caleb as well.They are excited. We are excited.</div>
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The time has finally come. </div>
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It's time to go get our baby.</div>
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It is time to become a family of five.</div>
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